Tuesday at 9:00 a.m. at Entrepreneur Collaborative Center (Tampa): Entrepreneurs Learning and Growth Hub presents Preparing Your Business for AI Automation.
Many businesses attempt to automate too early and struggle with broken processes, unreliable results, and increased complexity. This session focuses on how entrepreneurs can properly prepare their business for AI automation by building the right foundations first.
In this session, you’ll explore what needs to be in place before introducing AI so automation supports growth instead of creating operational risk.
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. online: Computer Coach / Tech Success Network presents LinkedIn Master Class: Being Found In The Crowd.
Standing out on LinkedIn takes more than just having a profile. It takes intention, clarity, and the right approach. This live webinar is designed to help professionals cut through the noise and get noticed by recruiters, hiring managers, and industry peers. Led by the Computer Coach Career Services team, this session breaks down how LinkedIn actually works and how to use it as a tool for visibility, connection, and career growth.
Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. at Entrepreneur Collaborative Center (Tampa): Tampa Bay Biotech presents Building Agentic AI Assistants: A Tutorial for Everyone.
Join Tampa Bay Biotech for a practical and engaging introduction to Agentic AI — the new generation of AI assistants that can reason, plan, use tools, and complete multi-step tasks. This session will explain how agent-based AI differs from traditional AI and standard prompt-response systems, then walk through the core architecture behind intelligent assistants, including LLMs, memory, tools, planning, execution, and orchestration.
Wednesday at 5:30 p.m. @ spARK Labs (St. Pete): The St. Pete / Tampa AI Salon is back with Chad Mairn, Professor and Founder of the Innovation Lab at St. Petersburg College. It’ll feature the this format: keynote → startup pitches → open mic → networking.
Wednesday at 6:00 p.m. at Vaco (Tampa): Tampa Bay Product Group presents Product Builders & Bingo: Casual Networking Social Hour.
Get ready for a networking experience that trades awkward silence for a little friendly competition. We’re turning the standard “so, what do you do?” small talk into a low-stakes scavenger hunt with our interactive Networking Bingo. Each attendee will receive a custom bingo card packed with a mix of product-focused prompts and lighthearted personal fun facts. Your mission is simple: strike up a conversation, find someone who matches a square, and have them sign your card. It’s the ultimate icebreaker designed to help you connect with as many local product peers as possible in a relaxed, pressure-free environment.
While you hunt for those winning rows, we’ll keep the energy high with plenty of fuel for your conversations. Food along with both alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverage options will be provided to keep things casual. Beyond the networking, we’ll also have exciting giveaways throughout the night for those who participate in the quest. Whether you’re a seasoned product leader or new to the field, come for the community, stay for the prizes, and leave with a whole new set of local connections.
Ready to level up your network? Connect with industry-leading recruiters and fellow tech professionals at TEKsystems, one of the world’s premier IT staffing firms. Whether you’re looking for your next role in Web development, Cloud, Data Science, or Cybersecurity—or just want to be proactive in today’s shifting economy—this is the place to be.
Thursday at 7:00 p.m. at The Neon Temple (Tampa): The Neon Temple presents Ouroboros of TPRM, is your TPRM actually working anymore?
Come join The Neon temple as D4B05H drops some knowledge-bombs about TPRM (Third-Party Risk Management). Understanding how the landscape has changed, and with the rise of AI, how effective actually is your current TPRM program? Some lessons learned from building an effective vendor TPRM program and how you can learn from their struggles.
Organized by Disrupt the Bay, this is a Roaring ’20s-themed charity event in Tampa, FL, dedicated to raising funds for pediatric cancer research, particularly targeting ATRT. There’ll be a premium cocktail hour, live entertainment, curated dining, silent and live auctions, and powerful stories showcasing the real impact their support makes for children and families. It’s not just a gala—it’s an experience where purpose meets style, and generosity fuels life-saving breakthroughs led by Save The Kids Foundation.
It’s largely automated. I have a collection of Python scripts in a Jupyter Notebook that scrapes Meetup and Eventbrite for events in categories that I consider to be “tech,” “entrepreneur,” and “nerd.” The result is a checklist that I review. I make judgment calls and uncheck any items that I don’t think fit on this list.
In addition to events that my scripts find, I also manually add events when their organizers contact me with their details.
What goes into this list?
I prefer to cast a wide net, so the list includes events that would be of interest to techies, nerds, and entrepreneurs. It includes (but isn’t limited to) events that fall under any of these categories:
Programming, DevOps, systems administration, and testing
Tech project management / agile processes
Video, board, and role-playing games
Book, philosophy, and discussion clubs
Tech, business, and entrepreneur networking events
Toastmasters and other events related to improving your presentation and public speaking skills, because nerds really need to up their presentation game
Sci-fi, fantasy, and other genre fandoms
Self-improvement, especially of the sort that appeals to techies
On Saturday, April 18th, Anitra and I attended Tech in Full Effect, a gathering of Tampa people in Tampa’s tech scene who also enjoy ’90s hip-hop and R&B, and we had a grand time!
Organized by Jordyn Short and Tiffiny B., it took place at Gaspar’s Luxury Estate in South Tampa, a large house and property that can serve as a vacation place for a large group, or in the case of Tech in Full Effect, a lovely party venue.
They had DJ Will spinning ’90s classics…
…’90s hip-hop/R&B-themed drinks…
…and opportunities aplenty to catch up with old friends and make new ones:
While many of the guests were local, a number came from way, way out of town, including from Jacksonville, Miami, Atlanta, and even San Francisco.
I had lots of conversations, and some of the topics were…
What am I doing after Tampa Bay Tech Week? My answer: “Get up to speed on the new job, keep cranking out the Tampa Bay tech events list, touch base with the new connections I made, try and find a venue for an upcoming Tampa Bay AI Meetup.”
My favorite current hip hop?Tkandz and Relaye. None of the “mumble stuff.”
Did we buy a Mac Mini to run OpenClaw? No, Anitra and I got his-and-hers M5 MacBook Pros as our main devices and are turning our old M1 MacBooks into to agent machines.
So what’s my new job?Senior Developer Advocate at NetFoundry, and it’s starting in two days (Tech in Full Effect took place on the 18th; my first day was on the 20th).
All in all, it was a great event with great people, great conversations, and great food and drink in an unusual setting for a Tampa Bay tech event. My thanks to Tiffiny and Jordyn for putting it on — and please let us know when and where you’re holding the next one!
Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. at the Rialto Theater (Tampa): Join TEKsystems and Gold’s Liquor for an evening of craft spirits, connection, and community impact as they raise funds for the March of Dimes organization!
This ticketed tasting event brings together members of the local business and professional community for a relaxed, social evening in support of the health of moms and babies.
All ticket purchase proceeds go towards their fundraiser for the March for Babies walk 2026.
Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. at the Hidden Springs Ale Works (Tampa): Join Tampa’s tech pro on Tuesday, April 28th, for the monthly meetup event, TampaTech, Taps & Tacos!
Tech: Connect & network with tech industry peers
Taps: Enjoy 15% off your tab as a tech attendee
Tacos: A full taco bar… who doesn’t love tacos?!
No speakers, no presentations – just great conversations and a raffle (because that’s way more fun!)
Tuesday at 6:00 p.m., online: The Mission: From “Hello” to “Welcome Back.” The biggest limitation of most AI apps is that they have “Goldfish Memory.” Every time you open the app, it’s like meeting a stranger.
At this meetup, this all changes. You’ll build an agent that uses Gemini 3’s 2-million-token context window and a new Memory Skill to create a truly personalized experience. Your app will remember that you hate cilantro, prefer 15-minute meals, and that you scanned an onion three days ago.
Thursday at 2:00 p.m. at CoHatch West Tampa (Tampa): Join Tampa RHUG to explore cutting edge solutions for IT modernization.
They’ll dive into RHEL 10 Image Mode, a new deployment methodology that is a game changer for system security and administration. You’ll also see how Ansible Automation Platform simplifies VM lifecycle management and automates OpenShift Virtualization, a critical topic for those facing virtualization strategy changes.
Thursday, starting at 4:00 p.m. at American Legion Post 138 (Tampa): You’re invited to participate in a MacDill and Tampa wide Orange Call!
Please feel free to spread the word to all communicators, guardians, and enablers past and present, as well as DoD Civilians. Their purpose is to gather and network amongst fellow communicators, guardians, and enablers of all ranks, titles, and experience levels, share resources, and seek professional development. They’ll conduct a round table meet & greet and discuss MacDill communicators and missions, including the increasing role of cyber and the importance of defending our nation’s networks.
It’s largely automated. I have a collection of Python scripts in a Jupyter Notebook that scrapes Meetup and Eventbrite for events in categories that I consider to be “tech,” “entrepreneur,” and “nerd.” The result is a checklist that I review. I make judgment calls and uncheck any items that I don’t think fit on this list.
In addition to events that my scripts find, I also manually add events when their organizers contact me with their details.
What goes into this list?
I prefer to cast a wide net, so the list includes events that would be of interest to techies, nerds, and entrepreneurs. It includes (but isn’t limited to) events that fall under any of these categories:
Programming, DevOps, systems administration, and testing
Tech project management / agile processes
Video, board, and role-playing games
Book, philosophy, and discussion clubs
Tech, business, and entrepreneur networking events
Toastmasters and other events related to improving your presentation and public speaking skills, because nerds really need to up their presentation game
Sci-fi, fantasy, and other genre fandoms
Self-improvement, especially of the sort that appeals to techies
Monday at 6:00 p.m. at Seminole Heights Library (Tampa): Tampa Devs presents How We Deleted $600K in Software Costs (And What We Learned Along the Way).
Long-time Tampa Devs member Ryan Clements, who’s also a long-time Tampa Devs member and speaker/founder of Byte Bot will share a story on how he and his team deleted $600K in software costs and the hard lessons learned along the way. The process involved replacing an expensive third-party ETL platform, revealing technical challenges that required every ounce of the team’s technical know-how.
What Ryan didn’t expect was how much the project’s success would hinge on navigating ambiguity, building stakeholder trust, and making dozens of small decisions that would compound over time. This session will dive into a story of a migration where the wins, the failures, and the lessons were earned from being in the trenches.
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. online: Computer Coach presents How to Write a Technical Resume.
Learn how to craft a killer technical resume that will land you interviews and impress hiring managers!
Technology is a vast industry with so many diverse specializations. Now more than ever, it’s critical that your resume represents not just your professional experience, but your technical abilities and how your skill ties in with the tech ecosystem.
During this live workshop, they’ll discuss how to write a technical resume for job searching in today’s highly competitive job market!
Tuesday at 7:00 p.m. at Hyde Park (Tampa): Tampa Machine Learning is holding a paper reading, where the paper in question is Scaling Laws for Neural Language Models.
Wednesday at 12:30 p.m. online: Heart of Agile is holding an online coffee corner, which is a relaxed Zoom gathering where practitioners come together to explore what those four moves look like in real teams, projects, and organizations.
In recent sessions, they’ve learned that people appreciate the openness of an informal conversation, and that a little bit of structure helps the discussion land more clearly.
Thursday at 6:00 p.m. at Entrepreneur Collaborative Center (Tampa): Tampa Java User Group presents Automated Generation of REST API Specifications and Java Code!
Given today’s AI-based “vibe-coding” tools implementing APIs can feel deceptively easy. However implementing APIs without first defining a well-structured API interface can increase technical debt and result in brittle API architectures. In contrast an API contract-first design approach focuses on crafting the API’s client interface specification before starting API coding.
This session will explore API design principles such as employing use cases to elicit API requirements, creating business domain models to create canonical API data models, and using the OpenAPI standard for documenting client interface contracts. They’ll show how creating well-structured business domain models can accelerate API development by automatically generating OpenAPI specifications and API implementation code. Finally they’ll demo tooling that automatically transforms a graphical business domain model into a well-structured OpenAPI specification and skeleton API Java code.
This session is ideal for architects, tech leads, and senior engineers seeking to pair the speed of modern tooling with the rigor of careful API design.
Friday at 8:30 a.m. at Pikmykid’s office (Tampa): Homebrew Hillsborough presents Pikmykid powered by CENTEGIX!
This is a very special Homebrew Hillsborough with our very own homegrown startup to company, Pikmykid powered by CENTEGIX. It will showcase one of Hillsborough County’s success stories and you’ll have the opportunity to meet the founders and learn about their journey.
Pikmykid is a Tampa-founded K–12 comprehensive safety platform built on a simple mission: to keep every student safe on campus. They empower schools to transform their daily and emergency operations with an easy-to-use platform, providing peace of mind so educators can focus on learning. Today, Pikmykid supports over 7,000 schools nationwide. Proudly built in Tampa and grown through the local innovation ecosystem, Pikmykid reflects the power of homegrown entrepreneurship scaling to national impact.
They will host a morning coffee session featuring founder stories and a discussion on building and scaling a mission-driven EdTech company from Tampa. This will include a short demo of their “campus-to-home” safety platform, followed by interactive Q&A and networking.
Friday at 11:30 a.m. at GuidePoint Security (Tampa): It’s OWASP Tampa Chapter’s 2026 April Lunch n’ Learn!
You’re invited to join OWASP Tampa Bay Chapter and members of our local Tampa Bay community to hear from industry experts in cybersecurity. This lunch and learn will bring topics that influence discussion among your peers and provide a venue to meet others that share your passions.
The speaker will be Damien DeHart, who comes with a background in Enterprise Observability/Performance Management, where he was a major contributor to New Relic’s Observability Maturity Architecture (OMA). Currently working as a Senior Solutions Consultant at Aikido Security, his current role is focused assisting clients with their Vulnerability Management strategy.
His talk abstract: Your devs are piling on 10k lines before lunch. This is the world we live in. What do you do about it? In this session, we’ll dive into some modern and emerging coding practices, how they’ve changed the landscape of software development, and how they affect your security posture in 2026. In an AI-Native world, security should integrate across your entire SDLC, especially at the point(s) where they can expose your organization to data breaches, malware, and subsequently reputational and monetary damage.
Saturday at 10:00 a.m. online: Google Developer Group Central Florida presents Build Your Own YouTube Summarizer Workshop!
Join them for an exciting hands-on workshop where you’ll learn to build a YouTube Summarizer using Google’s powerful tools and APIs! Whether you’re new to development or looking to expand your skills, this event is perfect for you. With our expert guidance, you’ll navigate through the codelab and create your very own application that summarizes YouTube videos. Don’t miss out on this opportunity to enhance your programming skills and connect with fellow tech enthusiasts in the community.
Saturday at 11:00 a.m. at Felicitous Coffee (Tampa): Liz Tiller presents a Women in Tech Tampa Meetup!
She writes:
Tampa women in tech ✨
I’m excited to officially share the details for our upcoming coffee hang!
We’ll be gathering on Saturday, April 25th at 11 AM at Felicitous Coffee (51st & Fowler, near USF / Temple Terrace).
This is a casual, welcoming space to connect with other women in tech—whether you’re a developer, designer, product manager, student, career-switcher, or just curious about the field. Come grab a coffee, meet new people, and build community.
If you’re interested in joining, drop a comment or send me a message—I’d love to get a sense of who’s coming!
Feel free to share with others in the Tampa area who might want to join us ☕
It’s largely automated. I have a collection of Python scripts in a Jupyter Notebook that scrapes Meetup and Eventbrite for events in categories that I consider to be “tech,” “entrepreneur,” and “nerd.” The result is a checklist that I review. I make judgment calls and uncheck any items that I don’t think fit on this list.
In addition to events that my scripts find, I also manually add events when their organizers contact me with their details.
What goes into this list?
I prefer to cast a wide net, so the list includes events that would be of interest to techies, nerds, and entrepreneurs. It includes (but isn’t limited to) events that fall under any of these categories:
Programming, DevOps, systems administration, and testing
Tech project management / agile processes
Video, board, and role-playing games
Book, philosophy, and discussion clubs
Tech, business, and entrepreneur networking events
Toastmasters and other events related to improving your presentation and public speaking skills, because nerds really need to up their presentation game
Sci-fi, fantasy, and other genre fandoms
Self-improvement, especially of the sort that appeals to techies
It’s largely automated. I have a collection of Python scripts in a Jupyter Notebook that scrapes Meetup and Eventbrite for events in categories that I consider to be “tech,” “entrepreneur,” and “nerd.” The result is a checklist that I review. I make judgment calls and uncheck any items that I don’t think fit on this list.
In addition to events that my scripts find, I also manually add events when their organizers contact me with their details.
What goes into this list?
I prefer to cast a wide net, so the list includes events that would be of interest to techies, nerds, and entrepreneurs. It includes (but isn’t limited to) events that fall under any of these categories:
Programming, DevOps, systems administration, and testing
Tech project management / agile processes
Video, board, and role-playing games
Book, philosophy, and discussion clubs
Tech, business, and entrepreneur networking events
Toastmasters and other events related to improving your presentation and public speaking skills, because nerds really need to up their presentation game
Sci-fi, fantasy, and other genre fandoms
Self-improvement, especially of the sort that appeals to techies
Tuesday at 5:30 p.m. at Armature Works (Tampa): Tampa Bay Tech Week starts with a relaxed kickoff mixer designed for attendees flying in, newcomers to the city, and anyone eager to meet the community before the week officially begins.
It promises to be an evening of light networking, good vibes, and early connections as you meet fellow founders, tech professionals, creators, and attendees from across the region and beyond. It’s also your chance to…
Pick up your badge early
Grab your swag bag
Settle in and meet familiar faces before the week gets moving
Tuesday at 6 p.m. at Armature Works (Tampa): In association with Tampa Bay Tech Week, there will be a GLOW IN THE DARK run! This is a casual 3-mile run starting and ending at Armature Works, bringing the Tampa community together for an unforgettable night.
They’ll have amazing vendors and giveaways, including Fit2Run, Perspire Sauna & Cold Plunge, Crossover Physical Therapy, Tampa Running & Performance, Revivery Sauna & Cold Plunge, and more!
Wednesday, for much of the day, at TGH Innovation Center (Tampa): Many Tampa Bay Tech Week events will take place at TGH Innovation Center! Check out the table below or the Tampa Bay Tech Week events page for details.
Wednesday, for much of the day, at Embarc Collective (Tampa): Many Tampa Bay Tech Week events will take place at Embarc Collective! Check out the table below or the Tampa Bay Tech Week events page for details.
Wednesday at 4:00 p.m. at Wagamama (Tampa): Tampa Bay Techies presents Tampa Bay Tech Week Techie Hour with Tampa After 5 Society! They’re bringing together Tampa’s tech community for an evening of networking, conversation, and connection at Wagamama.
Thursday, for much of the day, at Hotel Haya (Ybor City): Many Tampa Bay Tech Week events will take place at Hotel Haya! Check out the table below or the Tampa Bay Tech Week events page for details.
Thursday at 6:30 p.m. at USF (Tampa): Tampa Devs presents How to Break into Cloud: Certifications, Skills, Real Cloud Automation Demo!
Justin Herron, a Red Hat Ansible Automation Consultant, will introduce you to how cloud actually works, what skills & certifications matter, and demo real automation in action. Justin’s bringing Tampa Devs professionals with him — come network directly with engineers from the local tech industry!
Friday, for much of the day, at Connect St. Pete (St. Pete): Many Tampa Bay Tech Week events will take place at Connect St. Pete! Check out the table below or the Tampa Bay Tech Week events page for details.
Friday through Sunday at South University (Tampa):
BŪP Innovation Weekend is a 3-day hackathon and pitch competition where entrepreneurs, creatives, marketers, developers, and business minds come together to turn ideas into real ventures fast.
No coding experience? No problem. Using the latest AI-powered “vibe-coding” tools, anyone can build a working website or app over the weekend. What matters is your idea, your hustle, and your team.
Over 3 intense days, you’ll form a team, validate your concept with top industry mentors, and pitch your product live to judges from venture capital firms and accelerators competing for up to $100,000 in prizes and potential on-the-spot investment.
It’s largely automated. I have a collection of Python scripts in a Jupyter Notebook that scrapes Meetup and Eventbrite for events in categories that I consider to be “tech,” “entrepreneur,” and “nerd.” The result is a checklist that I review. I make judgment calls and uncheck any items that I don’t think fit on this list.
In addition to events that my scripts find, I also manually add events when their organizers contact me with their details.
What goes into this list?
I prefer to cast a wide net, so the list includes events that would be of interest to techies, nerds, and entrepreneurs. It includes (but isn’t limited to) events that fall under any of these categories:
Programming, DevOps, systems administration, and testing
Tech project management / agile processes
Video, board, and role-playing games
Book, philosophy, and discussion clubs
Tech, business, and entrepreneur networking events
Toastmasters and other events related to improving your presentation and public speaking skills, because nerds really need to up their presentation game
Sci-fi, fantasy, and other genre fandoms
Self-improvement, especially of the sort that appeals to techies
I’ve spent years doing developer relations, which means “working the room” is basically part of my job description. And since Tampa Bay Tech Week is happening next week, I thought I’d share this bit of knowledge with you:
Working the room isn’t about being an extrovert or a schmoozer. It’s about having a system to make the most of encounters you have at a gathering.
Whether you’re new to tech events and the idea of walking into a roomful of strangers makes you want to back slowly toward the exit, or you’re a seasoned conference-goer looking to sharpen your approach, this article is for you. I’m sharing everything I know about making the most of a week like this.
You don’t have to try everything in this article. Instead, scan through it, find the tips that fit your situation and your personality, and put those into practice. The goal is to leave Tampa Bay Tech Week with connections that actually go somewhere or lead to opportunities or friendships down the line.
Most tech conferences are contained. You show up to a hotel or convention center, everything is in one building, the schedule is linear, and your biggest logistical decision is whether to take the stairs or the elevator. Tampa Bay Tech Week is nothing like that.
Instead, Tampa Bay Tech Week is spread across multiple neighborhoods: Ybor City, downtown Tampa, midtown Tampa, and St. Pete. There are dozens of events happening over its four days ranging from 7am coffee runs to after-parties going late into the evening. The event types are just as varied: morning fireside chats, afternoon panel discussions, evening mixers, hackathons, themed after-parties, and a boat event. The topics are all over the map too: fintech, health tech, AI, defense tech, music tech, cybersecurity, proptech, beauty commerce, entrepreneurship, and more.
If you try to attend everything, you’ll absolutely burn out. If you don’t plan at all, you’ll spend half the week figuring out where you’re supposed to be and whether you can get there in time.
Which events align with your work or interests? A fintech founder has different priorities than a software engineer, who has different priorities than a student trying to break into the industry. TBTW is unusual in that all three of those people are in the same building at the same time, but you’ll have the most natural conversations at events where you have genuine context and curiosity about the content.
Which signature events do you want to be at? The ticketed events, like Innovation on the Water on Wednesday evening, Havana Nights Tech Edition on Thursday night, and the official kickoff on Tuesday, are prime networking territory precisely because the barrier to entry filters out people who aren’t taking the week seriously. If you have the $150 pass or specific event access (as a speaker, sponsor, or through a connection like the lovely people at TBTW who were kind enough to give me access; thank you, Emily!), prioritize these.
How are you getting around? Rideshare or drive? Will you need to know where to park? Will you need to cross a bridge? Plan ahead, or you’ll spend the whole transit stressed out and arrive frazzled rather than ready to meet people.
Give yourself permission to skip things. A focused day at two events where you’re fully present and engaged is dramatically more valuable than a frantic day at six events where you’re tired, rushing, and half-listening. It’s an all-too-common mistake to think of the gap between events as wasted time. It’s actually breathing room, and that breathing room is what makes the next conversation good.
The single biggest predictor of whether you’ll have good conversations at a tech event isn’t your personality, your job title, or your business cards. It’s whether you showed up prepared. Homework is how introverts in particular can stack the deck in their favor before they ever walk in the door.
Review the speaker lineups and sessions for the events you’ve chosen. Even a quick skim is enough. You want to walk into each event with at least one or two things you’re genuinely curious about, because genuine curiosity is the raw material of good conversation. “I saw you’re speaking about AI voice agents. I’ve been skeptical about the enterprise use case and I’m curious about what you’ve seen” is a wildly better opener than “So what do you do?” (and definitely better than Joey Tribbiani’s “How you doin’?”).
Research the speakers and panelists you’d like to meet. Look them up on LinkedIn. Read their bio. If they’ve written articles, given a talk, or have a company you can poke around on, check them out. Not so you can impress them by reciting facts about them back at them (please don’t do that), but so you can ask a question that shows you’ve engaged with their work. People who are asked good, specific questions remember the person who asked them.
Look into the sponsors and exhibiting companies. There’s almost certainly at least one company at TBTW that you’ve been curious about, want to partner with, or are considering as a potential employer or client. Having a reason to approach their table, such as “I read your blog post about autonomous customer support and I had a question about how you handle edge cases,” is so much better than “So, what does your company do?” which they have to answer fifty times a day.
Check the event hashtag and page the day before. People often post “Excited to be attending TBTW this week, come find me!” These are warm leads. Comment on a few posts from speakers or attendees you want to meet. When you see them in person, you’re no longer strangers. You have a built-in opener: “Hey, I replied to your post about the fintech panel — I’m [your name here].” Cold room, made warm.
There’s a version of “arriving with goals” that’s annoying and transactional. You’ve probably seen it from a networking mercenary who’s running through the room checking names off a list. This isn’t what I mean.
What I mean is: before you leave the house, know what you’re hoping to get out of the specific events you’re attending. It doesn’t have to be elaborate. It might be:
Learning something specific. “I want to understand what Tampa Bay founders are actually worried about on the funding side.”
Reconnecting with people you’ve lost touch with. Tampa Bay Tech Week is going to draw a lot of people from the local tech community who you haven’t seen since “The Before Times.” Take advantage!
Making a specific number of new connections. And here’s the key: make that number small. Rather than “meet as many people as possible,” aim for 3–5 meaningful conversations per day.
That last one deserves some unpacking. The default mode for conference networking is to try to meet everyone, collect a stack of business cards (or LinkedIn connections), and feel like you “won” the event by volume. This doesn’t work. The connections you actually keep and build on are the ones where you had a real conversation, ones where you learned something about the other person that you can reference later, where you found genuine common ground, where something actually clicked.
Five meaningful conversations a day for six days is thirty relationships worth tending to. That’s a fantastic outcome. Two deep conversations with people you’ll genuinely stay in touch with beats fifteen forgettable exchanges, every single time.
If you set a goal of 3–5 real conversations a day and you hit 2, but they were real, don’t beat yourself up. Give yourself credit for having had the courage to talk to two strangers. Then do it again tomorrow.
A good one-line self-introduction is a single sentence that tells people who you are in a way that invites a follow-up question. It’s not your resume. It’s not your elevator pitch. It’s the conversational equivalent of a hook at the top of an article: something that makes the person you’re talking to want to know more.
This concept comes from Susan RoAne’s book How to Work a Room, and I’ve used it at every conference I’ve attended for the past several years. It works.
Here are the rules for a good one-liner:
Keep it short. Ten seconds or less. It is not your life story. It is not a paragraph. If you’re still talking after ten seconds, you’ve lost the thread. People’s brains are trained to expect a pause and a handoff after about that long.
Lead with the interesting thing, not your job title. Job titles are boring. “Software engineer” tells someone almost nothing about you as a person. “Financial analyst” makes people’s eyes glaze over before you’ve finished saying it. But the interesting version of what you do — the version that a curious person would want to ask a follow-up question about — is almost always available if you think about it for a moment.
Susan RoAne tells a story about meeting a financial analyst at a networking event whose one-liner was “I help rich people sleep at night.” That’s brilliant. It’s accurate, it’s memorable, and it makes you want to ask “How?” Which is exactly what a good one-liner should do.
Show the benefit, not the mechanism. “I help companies make their AI pipelines faster” lands better than “I do MCP server optimization.” “I connect Tampa Bay’s tech community” lands better than “I run meetups.“ “I help founders find their first customers” lands better than “I do B2B sales consulting.“ Think about what your work actually does for people, and lead with that.
Inigo Montoya from The Princess Bride has the greatest self-introduction in cinema history. You know it:
“Hello. My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.”
Now, obviously, you’re going to adjust slightly for the context of a tech conference. But the structure is perfect:
Polite greeting
Name
Relevant personal link
Manage expectations
Greet them. Give your name. Give one piece of context that anchors who you are or why you’re here. Then open with a question or statement.
“Hi! I’m Joey de Villa. I run the Tampa Bay AI Meetup — this is my first time at Tech Week and I’m trying to hit as many events as I can this week. What brought you out today?”
That’s it. Short, warm, complete, and ends with a question that puts the spotlight on them, which is what most people want anyway. People love talking about themselves. Give them an easy on-ramp to do it.
One small addition that can work really well: state something you’re looking forward to or curious about. It gives the other person immediate conversational material.
“Hi! I’m Joey. I run a couple of Tampa Bay tech meetups and I do developer relations. I’m genuinely curious about the music tech session this afternoon — I play accordion, so I have a lot of feelings about AI in the studio. What’s on your agenda today?“
Now you’ve given them: your name, what you do, a memorable detail (in my example, accordion), a specific interest, and a question. That’s a lot of conversational material in about fifteen seconds.
One extra tip for TBTW specifically: the crowd here is unusually mixed. Engineers, founders, VCs, health tech operators, defense contractors, music producers, students, marketers. Don’t assume technical fluency. Have a non-technical version of what you do ready. “I make it easier for AI tools to communicate with each other“ is more useful at this event than “I’m optimizing an MCP server.“ “I help companies build AI workflows that actually hold up in production“ works. Find your translation before you walk in the door, not in the middle of a conversation where the other person is nodding politely while not understanding a word.
Pocket stories are short, memorable, ready-to-deploy anecdotes you keep in your back pocket for networking situations. They‘re the conversational equivalent of a great example in a talk, and they make abstract things concrete. They give people something to react to, and they make you more memorable than the person who just delivered a list of facts about themselves.
Good pocket stories are:
Brief. A minute to a minute and a half, tops. You’re not delivering a TED talk. You’re giving someone a thread to pull on.
Relevant to tech, business, community, or Tampa Bay. You want the story to feel at home in the conversation, not like a non-sequitur.
Open-ended. The best pocket stories end in a way that invites the other person to share their own perspective or experience. This transforms a monologue into a conversation.
Specific enough to be real. Vague stories are forgettable. “I once worked on a project that went sideways” is nothing. “I once built a caching layer that was so clever it confused our own monitoring system into thinking we were under a denial of service attack” is something.
Here are a few that would work well at TBTW:
A tech-flavored pocket story:
“I’ve been working with AI tools for a while now, and something genuinely strange happened on a project last month. The AI gave the customer exactly the right answer, but for completely the wrong reason. Which led to this fascinating rabbit hole about whether we actually understand why these models work, or whether we’re just measuring that they do.”
A Tampa Bay-flavored pocket story (always a good move at a celebration of the local tech scene):
“I’ve been running tech meetups in Tampa Bay since before the pandemic, and the difference between then and now is genuinely hard to overstate. The community here has grown up in a way I didn’t expect. That’s honestly a big part of why I’m excited that this event exists. It feels like the scene is finally getting the kind of visibility it deserves.”
A “first year” pocket story (specific to TBTW being a new event):
“This is my first Tampa Bay Tech Week, and I’ve been curious to see how it shakes out. First-year events are always interesting. There’s this energy that either comes from everything going perfectly or from everyone improvising together…and honestly, the second kind is often more fun.”
Practice your pocket stories out loud before the event. Not so they sound rehearsed, but so the shape of them is familiar enough that you can deploy them naturally when there’s a conversational opening.
Here‘s a tip that sounds strange until you try it, and then you wonder why nobody told you about it sooner.
The night before your first TBTW event, find some text. It can be this article, a news piece, really anything; then read it out loud for three minutes.
That’s it. Three minutes of reading out loud.
This works as a social confidence booster for several reasons:
It gets you comfortable with your own voice. A lot of people have some version of “I hate the sound of my own voice.” Here’s my dirty little secret: I used to hate the sound of my voice. People tell me I have a “radio voice” now, but it wasn’t always that way until I started using the “reading out loud” trick.
Reading out loud regularly desensitizes you to your voice. It gets you accustomed to hearing yourself talk, which reduces the self-consciousness that makes social situations feel harder than they are.
It sharpens your articulation. The physical act of reading out loud forces you to form words carefully and speak at a steady pace. You’ll catch yourself mumbling, and you’ll self-correct. You’ll notice when your volume drops and bring it back up. These habits carry over into actual conversations, and over time, you’ll fine-tune the way you speak and the voice you use.
It warms up the social circuitry. Talking is a physical and cognitive activity. Like any physical and cognitive activity, it’s easier once you’ve done a little warmup. Walking into a room as the first conversation of your day is cold-start networking. Walking in having already spoken out loud for a few minutes means the machinery is already running.
Try to do this every day of Tech Week. It’s three minutes. You can spare three minutes.
Posture advice sounds like something from an old-timely self-help book, but it keeps showing up in networking guides for a reason: it works, and most people in tech environments have genuinely bad posture from years of hunching over keyboards.
Good posture at a conference signals confidence, openness, and engagement. And because your body and your brain are a genuine feedback loop, you will actually feel more confident when you stand up straight. This is well-documented. Your brain picks up cues from your own body the same way it picks up cues from the world around it.
The simple mechanical version: imagine a string pulling gently upward from the crown of your head. Let your spine lengthen. Keep your knees soft; locked knees make you look rigid and uncomfortable. Roll your shoulders back slightly, enough to open your chest, not so far back that you look like you’re at attention.
When you do this, you appear approachable and engaged. People will walk toward you. Contrast that with the forward-rounded-shoulders-head-down look that reads as “I don’t want to be here and I definitely don’t want to talk to you.” Which one do you want people to walk toward?
The posture tip compounds nicely with the eye contact tip below. Together they add up to a version of you that people want to approach, even before you’ve said a word.
Eye contact is one of the fastest-working social signals humans have, and it’s chronically underused at tech conferences, where it’s extremely common to see people’s eyes drifting to their phones, to the name badges on people’s chests, or just slightly to the left of whoever they’re talking to.
When you make genuine eye contact with someone, really look at them. It creates an immediate sense of warmth and attentiveness. It makes people feel seen, which is a remarkably powerful thing in a noisy, crowded, overstimulating environment where it’s easy to feel like one anonymous face in a crowd.
Here’s how to do it without it feeling weird: when you meet someone, make eye contact and hold it for a “one thousand one, one thousand two” count. That’s long enough to register as genuine attention; not so long that it feels like a challenge or an interrogation. Then let your gaze move naturally, the way it would in any comfortable conversation.
A note on autism and eye contact: if you’re allistic (not on the autism spectrum), be aware that for some people — particularly autistic people — direct eye contact is genuinely uncomfortable and can even be aversive. If the person you’re talking to seems uncomfortable with eye contact or consistently looks away, don’t push it. Looking at the general area of their face (such as their forehead, nose, or cheek) conveys the same attentiveness without the discomfort. This is also a good fallback for people who find direct eye contact hard to maintain themselves.
Let me say this clearly: business cards are mostly dead at tech events. They exist in a handful of industries and contexts where they’ve survived for cultural reasons (I’m looking at you, Japanese business culture), but at a tech event in 2026, handing someone a paper card is a slightly awkward ritual that results in a card that will live in their jacket pocket until the next time they do laundry, at which point it will become a soggy rectangle and go in the bin.
Business cards have been replaced by the LinkedIn ritual:
You present someone with your LinkedIn QR code. To do this, follow these steps:
Open LinkedIn on your phone
Go to the Home screen
Tap the Search bar
Tap the QR icon, and your QR code will appear
They scan your QR code. They can do this with the LinkedIn app, but it’s much simple if they open their camera app and point the camera at QR code.
They tap the link that appears. This takes them to your LinkedIn profile, and they can request to connect with you.
Better still: if you’re getting a custom nametag for the week (and you should; more on “interesting things” in a moment), put your LinkedIn QR code on it. Now someone can connect with you just by pointing their phone at your chest, right in the middle of a conversation, without either of you having to stop and fumble for a device.
Pro tip: after you connect with someone on LinkedIn, immediately add a note about where you met and what you talked about. LinkedIn lets you do this from the connection request screen. Future-you will be very grateful when you’re going through your connections two weeks later wondering who “Sarah Chen” is.
For a lot of people, introverts especially, the hardest networking move isn’t starting a conversation with one person. It’s walking up to a group of people who are already mid-conversation and joining in.
The fear is understandable. You’re worried about interrupting. You’re worried about being unwelcome. You’re worried about not knowing what they’re talking about and standing there blankly while they look at you.
Here’s the thing: at a networking event, joining conversations is expected. The social contract is different from, say, interrupting someone’s dinner. People are here to meet people, including you.
Here’s the playbook:
Step 1: Pick a lively group. Look for a group of 3–4 people who are engaged and animated. They’ve already done social work for you! They’ve chosen a topic, they’re comfortable together, and there’s energy in the circle. Avoid groups of exactly two people who are leaning in toward each other, making sustained eye contact; that’s likely a focused one-on-one conversation that genuinely isn’t open to a third party right now.
Step 2: Stand at the edge of the group and look interested. Just stand there, angled toward the group, with a pleasant expression. Don’t force your way into the center. Don’t wave or make a big entrance. Just be present at the periphery. In most groups, someone will notice you within thirty seconds and either nod you in or shift slightly to make room. This is the universal body-language signal that says “you’re welcome here.”
Step 3: When acknowledged, step in and introduce yourself. You’re in! Now use your one-liner and introduce yourself to the group. Don’t try to introduce yourself to each person individually while they’re mid-conversation. Just say your name and let things flow naturally from there.
Step 4: Don’t try to change the subject. You just arrived. The group has a conversation going. Contribute to that conversation; let the topic evolve naturally over time. Showing up and immediately trying to redirect the discussion to what you want to talk about is the networking equivalent of sitting down at someone’s poker table and announcing that actually you’d prefer to play blackjack.
One more thing: if you see me in a conversation circle, come join in. I always keep an eye on the edges for people hovering who want to step in, and I’ll wave you over. Come find me!
The OAR (Observe, Ask, Reveal) technique is another gem from Susan RoAne’s How to Work a Room, and it’s one of the most practically useful conversation frameworks I’ve ever used. OAR it works because it’s structured, which means you don’t have to improvise from scratch. It gives you a template to follow, but it feels spontaneous and natural when you do it well.
Three steps:
1. Observe. Notice something. That “something” could be about the person, the venue, the content of the event, the situation you’re both in. You’re looking for a specific, concrete observation rather than a vague generality. “It’s a nice event” is not an observation. “I see you’ve got the TBTW lanyard. Did you get the full week pass?” is.
Good things to observe at TBTW:
Their nametag (company, event, custom text)
Something they’re holding or wearing
Which session they just came from
The venue itself, especially for distinctive TBTW events like the boat event or the Ybor City evening
2. Ask. Follow your observation with an open-ended question. The goal is to get them talking. Open-ended questions — ones that can’t be answered with a “yes” or a “no” — are your friend here. “What did you think of the AI panel?” lands better than “Did you go to the AI panel?” “What’s bringing you to TBTW this week?” lands better than “Is this your first time?”
3. Reveal. Share something about yourself that’s relevant to what they just said. This is the step that makes the conversation feel like an exchange rather than an interrogation. You give a little; they give a little. The rhythm is listen, contribute, listen, contribute.
⚠️ Two pitfalls to avoid:
Over-revealing. Don’t follow their short answer with a five-minute monologue about yourself. A reveal should be roughly proportional to what they shared.
Over-asking. If you observe, ask, they answer, you observe, ask, they answer, you observe, ask, and so on… it becomes an interrogation. The reveal step is what prevents this. Use it.
Some OAR examples specifically calibrated for TBTW:
“I noticed you were nodding pretty hard during the AI panel — what was the moment that got you?”
“I saw your nametag says [Company] — I’ve been curious about what you all are doing in the health tech space. What’s the problem you’re trying to solve?”
“This is an amazing venue for an event like this. Have you been to Armature Works before, or is this your first time?”
“That Havana Nights party last night was something else. Did you make it out? I ran into about six people I’ve been meaning to catch up with for months.”
This is advice specific to TBTW, and it’s important enough to get its own section.
At a developer conference like DevNexus or KCDC, you can say “I’m working on an MCP server that optimizes file deduplication using sampled hashing” and the people around you will nod, maybe ask a follow-up question about your hash function choices, and you’ll be off to the races. That’s a room full of people who speak the language.
Tampa Bay Tech Week is not that room.
TBTW is simultaneously a developer conference, a startup event, a VC mixer, an industry showcase, a community celebration, and an after-party. You might be in the same conversation with a software engineer, a health tech founder, a venture capitalist who came up through finance, a music producer curious about AI, and a student who’s just trying to break in. Most of these people do not know what an MCP server is. Some of them are not sure what a developer does day-to-day.
This is not a problem. Instead, it’s actually an opportunity, because the people who can explain technical things clearly in non-technical terms are far more memorable and interesting to talk to than the ones who retreat into jargon.
Before you walk into each event, have a non-technical version of what you do ready:
Instead of “I optimize MCP servers,” say “I make AI tools faster and more reliable when they’re talking to each other.”
Instead of “I build LLM integrations,” say “I help companies actually use AI in their products, not just demo it.”
Instead of “I do DevRel,” say “I help developers understand new technologies and give companies honest feedback on their developer experience.”
The test: could a smart non-technical person understand what you said, why it matters, and what to ask you next? If yes, you’re there. If no, keep translating.
This is one of my favorite pieces of advice, and I’ve given it in every version of this article because it keeps being true.
Being a host at a networking event doesn’t mean you have to be on the organizing committee. It means doing some of the things that hosts naturally do:
Introduce people to each other. This is the single highest-leverage move in any networking room. When you know two people who should meet each other and you make that introduction, both of them remember you as the person who connected them. “Joey, this is Sarah. She’s building an AI system for healthcare intake, and you just mentioned you worked on something similar at your last company.” That introduction takes ten seconds and creates a connection that might last years.
Say hello to people standing alone. Every networking event has wallflowers: people who’ve arrived, don’t know anyone, and are standing at the edge of the room trying to look like they meant to be alone. Walk over and say hello. They are almost certainly delighted to see you. This is one of the most human things you can do at an event and it costs you nothing.
Be generally helpful. Know where the bathrooms are and be willing to direct people to them. Know the schedule well enough to tell someone what’s coming next. Help someone find a session they’re looking for. None of this is glamorous, but it accumulates into a reputation for being a person who makes things easier for others, which is genuinely valuable currency in any professional community.
I’ll tell you exactly how this worked for me: when I first moved to Tampa, I didn’t know anyone in the local tech scene. I started attending meetups and simply helped out wherever I could by setting up chairs, live-tweeting talks, talking to the person who looked lost by the snack table. I gained a reputation for being useful and plugged-in, which led to speaking invitations, which led to inheriting a couple of meetup groups, which led to the Tampa Bay AI Meetup that now has 2,200+ members. None of that was a grand strategy. It was just: show up, be helpful, repeat.
Tampa Bay Tech Week is in its first year. The organizers are pulling off something genuinely ambitious: a multi-day, multi-venue, multi-track event across multiple neighborhoods. We normally don’t get events of this scale.
That means they almost certainly need help, and helping is something you can offer.
Reach out before the week starts and ask if there are volunteer opportunities. There will be registration desks, people will need to be directed between sessions, there will be setup and clean-up, and all sorts of jobs that need to be done to make an event work.
Even if they don’t need you for formal volunteering, you can offer to be a resource. You can help spread the word in your network, connect them with venues or speakers for future events, to write about what you attended (ahem).
Here’s why this matters for networking specifically: having a functional role removes the social friction of approaching strangers. When you’re a volunteer, you approach people because that’s your job for the next couple of hours. “Can I help you find the right room?” “Are you here for the fintech panel? It’s just down the hall.” “Let me know if you need anything.” These interactions are low-stakes, useful, and they create dozens of small positive interactions that often blossom into real conversations when you’re both in the session together afterward.
For introverts especially, this is a powerful move. You’re no longer cold-approaching strangers; you’re serving a function. The conversations find you.
TBTW is not a single event. It’s a collection of events with wildly different social norms, energy levels, and purposes. Walking into each one with the same approach is like bringing the same energy to a job interview, a cocktail party, and a funeral. Technically you’re “being yourself” at all three, but you’re going to have a rough time at two of them.
Here’s a rough map of the different event types and how to approach each:
Morning panels and fireside chats (9am – noon): People are in learning mode. They came for content. The best networking here happens in the ten minutes before the session starts (introduce yourself to your neighbors, comment on why you chose this session) and in the ten minutes immediately after (while the content is fresh and everyone has something to react to). Don’t try to network during the session. It’s rude, annoying, and doesn’t work.
Afternoon sessions and workshops: The energy is a bit more relaxed than mornings. People have had lunch, they’ve gotten their feet under them, and they’re more open to sidebar conversations. Workshops in particular create natural bonding because you’re working on something together.
Evening mixers (Founders & Entrepreneurs Mixer, Founders & Pho, etc.): These are explicitly networking events. People are here to meet people. This is where you deploy your full toolkit of one-liner intros, pocket stories, and the OAR technique. Nobody is going to think it’s weird that you walked up to them; that’s literally why everyone is there.
Signature events (Innovation on the Water, Havana Nights, Official After Party): These have their own character. “Innovation on the Water” is a boat event, which creates natural conversation through shared novelty: you’re both on a boat, which is inherently fun and memorable. “Havana Nights” is a late-night after-party in the best Ybor City style, which means it’s loud, festive, and better suited to lighter social connections than deep professional conversations. Adjust accordingly.
After-parties (after 9pm): These are best for casual connection with people you’ve already met during the day, and for having the fun, slightly-less-professional conversations that don’t happen in the sessions. Not the place for pitching; definitely the place for making someone laugh.
Two body-language patterns that accidentally make you unapproachable, and how to fix them:
Rock piles are groups of people huddled together in a tight, closed circle. Everyone’s so close to each other that their shoulders are almost touching, and nobody at the edge is making eye contact with the room. The message this sends, unintentionally, is “this is a private conversation, go away.” If you find yourself in a rock pile, step back slightly and shift your angle. It opens the formation to allow others to join.
Hotboxing: this is a term I’ve picked up in the context of professional events rather than the other meaning you might be thinking of. In this case, it’s when is when two people square up directly face-to-face in a way that physically blocks anyone else from entering the conversation. It’s essentially a one-on-one rock pile. The fix is the same: angle yourself slightly, leave a gap, let someone step in.
Both of these patterns are entirely unconscious. You’re not trying to exclude anyone; it just happens when you’re absorbed in a good conversation. Knowing about it is usually enough to catch yourself and correct it.
Your phone is a social barrier when you’re holding it, scrolling it, or staring at it. Even if you’re doing something completely innocuous (such as checking the event schedule or selecting a rideshare), the visual signal you’re sending is “I am not available for conversation.” At a networking event, that’s exactly the signal you don’t want to send.
There are legitimate reasons to have your phone out: looking up someone’s LinkedIn to connect, showing someone something on your screen, checking what’s next on the schedule. These are fine; just narrate them lightly. “Let me pull up my LinkedIn QR code” or “Let me see what time the next session starts” tells people what you’re doing and doesn’t leave them wondering if you’ve mentally left the conversation.
Otherwise: phone in pocket, eyes up. Your emails will still be there after the event.
Similarly: if you put your bag down, you’re staying. When you pick it back up and start gathering your things, people can read that you’re about to move on. This is actually useful, since it gives you a natural, non-awkward exit from conversations that have run their course.
Organize your new contacts quickly (the day of, if you can)
Memory is perishable. The vivid sense of “oh yes, I remember exactly who that was and what we talked about” fades faster than you think, especially at a multi-day event where you might meet fifty new people over the course of the week.
The single most valuable thing you can do after each event — ideally the same day, on the rideshare home or before you go to sleep — is to make a quick note on every meaningful connection you made:
Who: name, company, role.
Where and how you met: “at the Founders & Pho event Thursday night, we bonded over the music tech panel earlier in the day.”
What you talked about: even one or two sentences is enough. “She’s building an AI system for mental health intake; skeptical about regulation timeline.”
Any follow-up you promised: “I said I’d send her the article I wrote about AI in healthcare.” “He said he’d connect me with someone at his firm.”
A note app on your phone is completely adequate for this. You don’t need a CRM (though if you do have one, use it). The goal is to capture enough that when you sit down to write follow-up messages two days later, you’re writing to a specific person about a specific conversation. You don’t want to send a generic “great meeting you!” to a name you can barely place.
The timing matters. The warm period after a networking event is roughly 48–72 hours. Inside that window, people still remember who you are and what you talked about; your follow-up lands as a continuation of the conversation. Outside that window, you’re increasingly a stranger who’s sending them a cold message.
The message itself should be short. This is not the place for a five-paragraph email. It’s the place for a message that says:
I remember who you are and what we talked about (which is surprisingly rare and therefore memorable).
Here’s something useful related to our conversation.
Let’s keep this going.
“Great talking to you at the Founders & Pho event Thursday! I loved your take on the regulatory headwinds in mental health tech. Here’s the piece I mentioned about the FDA’s current stance on AI diagnostics: [link]. Would love to keep the conversation going.”
That’s three sentences and a link. That’s enough. If they want more, they’ll reply and you can go from there.
If you promised a specific follow-up, such as an introduction, an article, or a resource, lead with that. You said you’d do it; doing it promptly signals that you’re someone who follows through, which is a more valuable signal than most people realize.
Different platforms serve different kinds of ongoing relationships, and connecting on the wrong one can mean the relationship goes nowhere even if the initial spark was there.
LinkedIn is the default for professional connections. If you met someone in a professional context and want to stay vaguely in each other’s orbits, LinkedIn is the right channel.
GitHub is the right channel if you talked code, mentioned projects you’re working on, or might collaborate on something technical. Starring someone’s repo or following their account is a lightweight but genuine signal of interest.
Bluesky is where a significant chunk of the tech community has landed after leaving X/Twitter over the past couple of years. If you connected with someone over tech culture, industry opinions, or the kinds of conversations that used to happen on Twitter, Bluesky is probably where they’re having them now. Worth checking.
A group chat or Slack if there’s a specific project, community, or ongoing conversation that makes sense. Some events spin up a Slack workspace or Discord server; if TBTW does this, join it and be actually present rather than just a member.
The follow-up message is an opening, not a destination. The people you want in your network long-term are the ones where there’s genuine ongoing exchange. You learn from them, they learn from you, you help each other when you can.
The mechanics of this aren’t complicated:
Interact with their posts when something resonates. A thoughtful comment on LinkedIn is worth fifty passive likes.
Share relevant things with a one-line note. “Saw this and thought of what you said about proptech at TBTW. It seems relevant.” That’s a connection-maintenance act that takes thirty seconds and reminds them you’re a person who pays attention.
Make introductions when you can. “I know someone you should meet” is one of the most valuable things you can say to anyone in a professional network, and delivering on it cements you as a connector.
Show up to the same events over time. Relationships deepen through repeated encounters. If you meet someone at Tech Week and then again at a Tampa Bay AI Meetup a month later, you’re now more than an acquaintance. You’re starting to become a known quantity in each other’s worlds.
I want to spend a bit more time on this section than I usually do, because I think most networking advice for introverts is either patronizing (“It’s okay to be nervous!”) or not actually calibrated for how introversion works in practice.
So let me be specific.
What introversion actually means in this context
Introversion doesn’t mean shyness, though they often co-occur. It means that social interaction, particularly with strangers, costs you energy rather than giving you energy. Extroverts (like myself) leave a great networking event feeling more energized than when they arrived. Introverts often leave the same event feeling depleted, even if they had a genuinely good time.
This is not a personality flaw. It’s just a different energy profile. And it has real implications for how you should approach a week like TBTW.
Schedule your recharge breaks in advance, non-negotiably
This is the highest-leverage change most introverts can make to their conference approach, and it’s almost never in the standard advice.
Before the week starts, look at your event calendar and block 90-minute recharge windows the same way you block sessions you want to attend. These aren’t open slots that you’ll fill with more events if something interesting comes up. They’re protected time for you to be alone, be quiet, and recover.
What does recharging look like? Whatever works for you: sitting in your car in silence, going for a walk without headphones, sitting in a coffee shop that’s far enough from the venue that nobody you know will walk in, going back to your hotel room if you’re from out of town. The specific activity is less important than the solitude and the recovery.
Remember that you don’t have to attend everything. If there’s a session that’s not particularly interesting or useful to you, skip it and treat it as built-in decompression time. Use the break to let your nervous system come back to baseline before the next event.
The standard “meet as many people as possible!” networking advice is actively counterproductive for introverts, because it creates a success criterion that’s both exhausting and incompatible with the way introverts build connections.
Introverts typically form better connections through fewer, deeper interactions. A ninety-minute conversation with one person that covers real ground is often worth more than ten five-minute conversations. The problem is that ninety-minute conversations are also more energetically expensive.
The reframe: aim for 3 meaningful conversations per event, or 3 to 5 per day. Write this down. Make it your actual goal. If you get to the end of an event having had 2 real conversations where you actually connected with the person, learned something about them, and exchanged something genuine, give yourself full credit. That’s a successful event.
If you hit your number and you have energy left, keep going. If you hit your number and you’re exhausted, you’re done. Leave. Go recharge. Show up tomorrow.
At any loud evening event, there are almost always quieter zones: an outdoor patio, a hallway near the exit, a corner of the bar that’s slightly removed from the main gathering. Introverts instinctively find these spots, and other introverts find these spots too.
Some of the best conversations I’ve had at conferences have happened in a hallway outside the main event space, where two people who needed a break from the noise ended up talking for forty-five minutes because the environment was finally calm enough to actually think. Go find those spots. You won’t be alone there.
Sessions, panels, and fireside chats give introverts something to talk about that isn’t themselves. This is huge. Instead of “So, what do you do?”, which requires you to perform and the other person to do the same, you can open with “What did you make of the AI panel?” or “I thought the moderator’s question about regulation was interesting. What’s your take?”
You’re talking about ideas rather than pitching identities. For introverts who prefer substantive conversations to small talk, this is a feature, not a workaround.
Aim to attend the sessions that are most relevant to your work or interests, and immediately after each one, position yourself to have a post-session conversation with someone nearby. “What did you think?” is about the easiest conversation opener there is.
Most networking advice is written for extroverts, which means it emphasizes the skills extroverts naturally have: working the room, projecting warmth, holding court, keeping energy high. These are real skills. But they’re not the only skills that matter in professional networking.
Introverts tend to:
Listen more carefully. In a room full of people trying to be heard, the person who’s genuinely paying attention is rare and memorable. People will tell you things they don’t tell the person who’s already formulating their next sentence while you’re still talking.
Ask better follow-up questions. Because you actually heard what they said.
Have more substantive conversations. Introverts tend to gravitate toward depth when they’re engaged. The person who had a thirty-minute conversation with you about something you both care about is going to remember you far longer than the person who had a four-minute exchange with fifty people.
Follow up more thoughtfully. Because you took in more during the conversation, your follow-up can be specific and personal in a way that generic “Great to meet you!” messages aren’t.
These are genuine advantages. They don’t show up in the standard conference networking playbook, which is oriented toward volume and energy, but they show up in the quality of the relationships you build.
Wednesday at 5:30 p.m. @ spARK Labs (St. Pete): The St. Pete / Tampa AI Salon is back with Chad Mairn, Professor and Founder of the Innovation Lab at St. Petersburg College. It’ll feature the this format: keynote → startup pitches → open mic → networking.
Thursday at 6:00 p.m. at TEKsystems (Tampa):
Thursday at 7:00 p.m. at The Neon Temple (Tampa): The Neon Temple presents Ouroboros of TPRM, is your TPRM actually working anymore?
Friday at 6:00 p.m. at The Orlo (Tampa):
Find out more and register here.
